Husband and wife love

Marriage secrets should not be 'traded' with friends

For a sustainable marriage, there are issues that you should not bring up with your friends: don't talk about debt, sex, or disparage your partner...

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Do you think your partner has a problem?
You may find it comforting to share with your friends that your partner is driving you crazy. It's okay to complain a little, but when you give your friends a lot of evidence to convince your friends that your partner is stupid, they will never forget it. The next day, you can easily get over the frustrating story with your husband the day before, but your friends can't.

How much money do you and your wife earn?
Couples often argue: Whose house is bigger, whose car is better. If you share how much money your family earns with your friends, they may make unfair judgments. They may consider your problems inconsequential if you already make too much money, or they may treat you impolitely if you earn less than them (though real good friends never do). behave like that). It is advisable to maintain equality in your friendship by keeping salary matters private.

The friend your spouse doesn't like
Don't think of marriage as a friendship. If your friend doesn't like your partner (or vice versa), never tell the other person. Never even told a third friend about it.

Life in your room
A friend told me that her husband calls his "boy" a faucet. Then for a month, I looked at him like a mutant. Sharing stories about sex can create exciting feelings for friends. But there are things that are best left out of the "eight" category, like your partner's sexual preferences, the size of your penis, and all the things you don't want people talking about behind your back.

Amount owed by your family
Nearly all couples have debt, but how much should it be talked about? Your friends will get annoyed when you brag about how low your family debt is and how much your husband has accumulated over the years. If you complain that you have too much debt, your friends may not invite you over for the summer because they feel guilty when they are better than you. Don't give them any reason to judge you.

Kim Kim (according to The Nest)

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